Wild & Sacred

Reclaiming Your Body’s Magic

Jess Payne

“Somatic healing and integration has given me a deep appreciation for my body; how much it is able to hold and its relentless commitment to protecting me.

I am a trauma-informed somatic practitioner and mama of two amazing daughters. My girls are my greatest testimony. They will grow up with vastly different versions of me, as my eldest was my reason for pursing my own healing before I was. Each point of my story led me to become the person I needed back then.

As a young adult I craved community and connection. For more than a decade I walked through my life the best I knew how to, coping with complex PTSD, codependency, and the impacts of narcissistic abuse.

After years of traditional talk therapy and practicing various healing modalities, I discovered the somatic approach to healing and everything changed.

I learned how to process emotions stored in my body gained a sense of freedom I had always wanted. I interrupted patterns that had played out in my family for generations by resolving mirroring subconscious survival patterns within me.

I experienced a rapid inner and outer transformation and finally began to truly fall in love with my life, clarifying a deep sense of purpose to help others. I majored in sociology with a burning desire to understand and unravel our broken systems. I continued my education in trauma-informed relational somatics, focusing on generational and relational trauma healing and integration. My client experience is designed to equip them with the tools to continue this work in their healing practice far beyond our time together.

FAQs

  • Somatic Experiencing is a body-based approach to healing trauma and interrupting behavioral patterns by focusing on releasing stored stress and unprocessed emotions in the body.

  • Somatic Experiencing is gradual process of releasing stored stress, trauma, and unprocessed emotions by following sensations in the body. This modality prioritizes expanding feelings of safety to allow the nervous system to regulate and recover from traumatic events.

    During a somatic session, the individual increases their awareness of their body by noticing subtle sensations, and is gently guided to follow these sensations with their awareness to release stored stress in the body. Other times, the individual may expand deeper into feelings of safety, relief, peace, joy, and trust - allowing the nervous system to recalibrate to these states of being.

    This practice simultaneously rewires the nervous system, healing the impacts of trauma and forming new and supportive neural pathways.

  • Somatic Experiencing is the leading therapeutic modality for treating trauma-related conditions and ailments. This is because SE focuses on the impact trauma has on the nervous system and expanding safety in the body. Individuals are able to process and move past traumatic events without having to relive them. Instead, SE develops body awareness by focusing on sensations in the body and gently resolving trauma at the root .

    • PTSD and Complex-PTSD

    • Anxiety and Panic Disorders

    • Codependency and addiction

    • Chronic pain and physical tension stemming from trauma

    • Depression and low energy

    • Sleeping challenges

    • Relationship and behavioral challenges

    • Unresolved grief

  • Somatic Experiencing works with the nervous system to regain balance and well-being in mind and body. The nervous system controls all other bodily systems, so the extent of benefits of SE is unquantifiable. Some common benefits include

    • Reduced anxiety

    • Increased emotional regulation

    • Increased capacity to handle stressful situations

    • Better sleep, skin, and energy

    • Improvements in all types of relationships; family, friends, dating, partners, colleagues, and children

    • Improved intimacy and emotional fulfillment

    • Increased confidence, resilience, and clarity

    • All around feeling lighter, happier, and more connected

    • Greater connection to the body and emotional awarness

    • Better sex and sex drive

    • Unexpected weight loss or weight balancing naturally

    • Boosted creativity, zest for life and feelings of fulfillment

    • Access to feeling present, grounded, at peace, and turned on - whenever you want.

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and other forms of talk therapy approach healing through the mind (the top-down approach), promoting self-awareness and supporting us to mentally process our lived experiences. It is highly affective in helping us recognize our patterns and behaviors and mentally process the past, or “the story”. SE is a body based approach that prioritizes regulating the body’s responses to trauma by and expanding feelings of safety to gradually release stored emotion (the bottom-up approach), helping us resolve the emotional impact of “the story” on the nervous system.

    Somatic Experiencing does not require the individual to verbalize the traumatic experience(s) in detail, if at all. Trauma doesn’t live in the mind, it lives in the body. When we are triggered our flight, fight, freeze, or fawn reactions are activated, facilitated by the nervous system. Verbalizing details of the experience is typically always avoided in SE to prevent the individual from being re-traumatized.

  • Individuals can feel a meaningful sense of relief after 1-2 sessions, and experience profound and meaningful progress after 6-12 sessions.

    It is recommended to have weekly sessions until the individual has developed their own grounding and attunement practice, then sessions are typically more spaced out. Clients usually feel complete and satisfied with their results after 3-6 months, and in some cases up to 12 months depending on the individual.

My work is devoted to…

  • Curiosity

    Remaining open to what is present and discoverable from a place of genuine wonder, and without judgement.

  • Creativity

    Bringing new life to expression, perspective, and capacity for what is possible by accessing our senses, joy, and inner knowing.

  • Strategy

    Result-oriented progress with intentionality, intuition, creativity, and scientific knowledge.

  • Honesty

    Total transparency and integrity grounded in kindness and compassion.

  • Safety

    Working with the rhythm of your own nervous system with trauma informed guidance, gradually integrating safety in your body.

  • Knowledge

    Proving comprehensive insight and education for you to develop your own somatic practice, and cultivate your relationship with your nervous system.

  • Personal Agency

    Having the freedom to live life on your terms, without feeling controlled by triggers or fear.

  • Equity

    Equal access to healing, safety, and personal development for people of all financial realities to elevate their lives beyond expectation.

  • Support

    Providing attention, care, and tools to help you advance your personal evolution during your session and between sessions, ultimately equipping you with what is needed to continue your practice after our work together is complete.